Onboard Comfort and Courtesy
Boarding Strategies
- The debate over boarding early or late often comes down to personal preference. Smith-Lihas prefers being among the first to secure overhead luggage space, while Simmons opts to board last, avoiding the “crowded shuffle” in the jet bridge. Remember that the plane won’t leave without you, regardless of your preference.
Stay Comfortable
- Flight attendants recommend creating a personal comfort kit for the flight. Noise-canceling headphones, an eye mask, and a travel blanket can transform your airplane seat into a cozy retreat. Smith-Lihas also emphasizes the importance of bringing snacks. “Even if the airline serves meals, delays can mean long waits without food,” he says.
Maintain Hygiene
- Airplanes are cleaned between flights, but wiping down your tray table and seat area is always a good idea. Some airlines provide sanitizing wipes, or you can bring your own. Additionally, always wear shoes in the bathroom — it’s non-negotiable for flight attendants.
Be Considerate of Fellow Travelers
Small Acts of Kindness
- The holidays can amplify stress for many travelers. Simmons encourages spreading positivity through small gestures like offering a smile or being patient with airline staff. “These small actions reflect the holiday spirit and can brighten someone’s day,” she says.
Handle Seat Swaps Properly
- Always inform the flight attendants first if you need to change seats to sit with family or friends. “It’s important for the crew to know where everyone is seated for safety and logistical reasons,” Simmons explains.
Upgrade Wisely

The Myth of Free Upgrades
- While spontaneous upgrades sound magical, Simmons notes they’re increasingly rare, especially during the holiday season when flights are often oversold. If you want to increase your chances, ask the gate agent politely. Frequent flyers with loyalty status typically have better odds.
Lounge Access
- Even if you’re flying economy, purchasing a lounge pass can be worth it. “It’s a great way to escape the airport chaos, enjoy some quiet, and recharge before your flight,” says Smith-Lihas. However, research availability beforehand, as lounges can fill up quickly during the holidays.
Holiday Spirit on the Plane
Spread Good Cheer
- Flight attendants often work through the holidays, missing celebrations with their own families. Small gestures like offering chocolates or a kind word can make their day. Simmons says, “Patience and understanding are sometimes the best gifts.”
Be a Team Player
- Remember that everyone is navigating the same stresses, from crowded airports to delayed flights. A little empathy goes a long way. If a fellow passenger’s actions are irritating, ask yourself, “Is this worth getting upset over?” and try to let it go.
Final Thoughts
Surviving holiday travel doesn’t have to be a daunting task. With preparation, patience, and a touch of holiday cheer, you can turn a potentially stressful experience into a pleasant adventure. Follow these tips from the pros and make your journey part of the celebration. Safe travels!